Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit.
inkskinned, “My father’s recipe for the man I should marry” (via partygirlmeltdown)
(Source: thelovewhisperer, via addicted2lovingu)
I am an architect
of days that haven’t happened yet,
I can’t believe a month is all it’s been.
You know my paper heart,
the one I filled with pencil marks,
I think I might’ve gone and inked you in.
- John Mayer (A Face to Call Home)
(Source: johnmayersays, via when-sunlight-fades)
Sometimes, I sit alone under the stars
and think of the galaxies inside my
heart, and truly wonder if anyone will
ever want to make sense of all that
- Christopher Poindexter (via larmoyante)
sometimes i think i’m sassy and then i realize i’m just too sarcastic and borderline mean
(Source: astoundly, via trust)